Tags

, , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , ,

justsexypics-sex-blog-here-submit-here

 

We live in a cruel world. And our love lives have done nothing to help. Dating is nothing more than a vicious cycle that consistently triggers men and women into assholes and bitches – (ir)respectively. It’s the domino effect.

Paying it forward. Once someone gets hurt or f*cked over, they manage to hurt five other people, who then, in turn, hurt five more people – until everyone builds huge walls around themselves and never opens up to anyone.

And so, naturally, trust and fidelity are sacrificed in the love game, as everyone is so insecure or scarred from the last time they had their hearts broken, that no matter what, they think they’re being cheated on. In the most simplistic terms, everyone is either an asshole or a bitch – and if they are not, they’re certainly on the road to becoming one.

As with any domino effect, there has to be that first domino that knocks down all the dominos afterwards. It’s like disease, it’s not as if it falls from the sky, it must be contracted and spread. So I attempt causation, discovering that first trigger that sent all of these people sprawling.

433463904811

 

What came first the chicken or the egg, the asshole or the bitch? Was it simultaneous? Was it one-sided? It’s a bit difficult to point to one gender and immediately decipher responsibility, so let’s take a deeper look – shall we?

The first case scenario is the first recorded relationship of all time: Adam and Eve. Which, of course, all religions agree with unless you’re a Scientologist and believe Tom Cruise was the first human to walk the planet. Adam and Eve were the first two people ever to have sex, they were the first ones to figure out that some light cuddling leads to an erection — and then you must stick into one of three holes that a woman possesses. Can you imagine how rhythm-less the first sex session was? But that’s beside the point.

Looking back at this relationship, it seems as if Adam was a nice guy — which led him to get fucked over by Eve. She was always the one that was wandering around looking to explore and even started talking to a snake –  who could have been another guy. Sure she didn’t cheat on Adam, but this was the first case of a girl going against the will of her lover by eating from the tree of life — because the snake convinced her that it was a good idea.

Sure we can’t point the blame at just her for being the first bitch and fucking over Adam, which he of course didn’t take too well. But this is the first ever instance of a bitch triggering an asshole without being triggered before. Fast-forward a lot of centuries to the modern day world.

43372094851-485x328

 

Through time men practiced polygamy, it was okay for them to have 100s of wives and bang as many women as possible — it was a position of power, so there were only assholes back then, and no bitches, because women were seen as replaceable.

Now you walk into our modern day world. A world where dating has completely lost its definition and meaning, and the concept of love has been replaced with quick and easy sex on demand. Which domino was first? That is a question that is quite tough to give a firm answer to.

But if you are looking at it from a common sense perspective, it would have to be the bitch. Women can naturally be bitches, whereas men need to be turned into assholes — from anger. We’re not naturally assholes, it stems from something that we loved going wrong and then taking out our revenge on the rest of the world.

Women can be bitches at any time. They are insecure, they don’t trust men, have a huge wall built around them and have less self-control than we men. Three drinks at a bar followed by some cocaine and they are cheating on their boyfriends in no time.

Screen-Shot-2013-02-18-at-11.32.45-AM

 

Women are also known for fucking over nice guys, which is why being nice to a girl doesn’t get you too far with them. And they eventually leave you for an asshole that has no idea how to treat them because it’s challenging for them.

With simply looking at the equation, you have to surmise that it started with guys being nice to women, who being the bitches they naturally are, leave their men for other assholes. These guys then realize that being nice got them nowhere and that becoming an asshole is the only way to go. It is pure fact that women are attracted to bad-asses. So could it be that a bitch is the first domino?

I have been on both sides of the spectrum, I have been the nice guy who tried to treat a lady the way she should be treated by a gentlemen, and it left me with nothing but her just going back to some asshole guy.

43364461633

 

What this has done is just triggered me into being an asshole once again because it was quite obvious to me that all these women want is someone that won’t treat them nicely. I have also been an asshole to a nice girl, in fear that she is a bitch, and because I was just playing it safe, I managed to trigger a bitch.

Men are equally responsible in this regard. Because we are dumb enough to think that every girl is the same and has the same tendencies, we will fuck over girls that aren’t bitches just because we are afraid to get hurt again and make ourselves vulnerable. Plain and simple: we are idiots, we do cheat, we love new booty and the chances of us fucking her over are quite high.

When looking for an answer for this question, it is unfair to point the finger at just one gender, as we are both equally responsible for what is going on. Questions remain. Will we ever stop it? Where is the last domino? Will love completely devolve to just having causal sex with assholes and bitches?

– via Elite Daily