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This week is International Clitoris Awareness Week, a worthy cause if ever we saw one. Sponsored by a Clitaroid, an organization that aids victims of genital mutilation, the event aims to spread knowledge on this oft-underappreciated organ. While we would have held the week a bit further away from Mother’s Day, we can still get behind it. So here’s a primer on everything you need to know about the clitoris.
Understanding The Clitoris
We’re sure you’ve all heard about how your girl’s vibrator can be your best friend. Her battery-powered playthings can definitely help you be in more places at once, which is always a good thing. However, have you thought about ways to ensure clitoral stimulation during intercourse? Lining up your pubic bone to hit her in the right spot can be difficult to figure out and having her “help out” while you penetrate means that she has less hands available to be all over you, so why not try the newest vibrating product to help you both out? Many companies now offer stretchy rings that you can slide onto your member that come with the added bonus of a small knobby protrusion with vibrating capabilities that can ensure an extra boost for her with every thrust.
The focus of a lot of creams and sexual potions usually centers on the tingling effect or the numbing effect, depending on what you’re looking for. While it’s true that lubrication is key to making her experience pleasure rather than discomfort when you tackle her clitoris, it’s best not to get too caught up in the newest, most flavorful or scientifically superior bottle on the shelf. A plain old personal lubricant on its own can be your best friend when it comes to ensuring an optimal experience for your partner. Don’t believe us? Try masturbating with no slippery aid. Enough said.
All women appreciate that you’ve decided to get up close and personal — really, they do — and your mouth (and tongue) are your best aids to helping her achieve an earth-shattering orgasm every time. The built-in lubrication and warmth are obvious pros in favor of oral sex, as is your ability to mix up the sensations with your lips and tongue teamwork. If you’re looking to move past the basic flick and swirl and show that you really understand the clitoris, try creating a bit of suction by taking her clitoris into your mouth with some gentle sucking or pulling away when she’s close to orgasm, and gently blowing on it to heighten her sensation and prolong the encounter.
We don’t want to ignore your favorite sex toy when we’re discussing her orgasm and understanding the clitoris; your penis can get in the game and help out during foreplay to really get her going as well. During intercourse, your member might not get too much face time with her clitoris, so it’s worth taking a bit of time to introduce them — they’re sure to be fast friends. Before sex, why not try having your woman lay on her back with her legs clamped together tightly (on her stomach works too) and slide your member between her legs right where they meet with her pelvis. Moving back and forth in this position lets your penis rub between her labia and, more importantly, directly over her clitoris. Not only does this trick feel great for both of you, it’s sure to heighten your collective arousal and result in possible orgasms for everyone.
no longer so elusive…
Understanding the clitoris is the sign of a man that is invested in his partner and her pleasure, both of which are noble qualities. Even though it seems like a bit of a mystery, there’s nothing to be afraid of, and many things to gain, namely a happy and satisfied woman. And remember, a satisfied woman is going to be more interested in making sure that you’re satisfied too, and you can’t ask for more than that.
via – http://www.askmen.com